Being a groom requires dedication, hard graft and long hours so it's essential to work in the right job for the right employer. All too often "people come in with passion and devotion and leave on reality" says Desi Dillingham MBE, President of the British Horse Society and employment expert. Presenting yourself well, clear communication and good preparation are essential. Desi's advice to employers is "treat others as you would have them treat you"! Fiona Price interviews Desi at Sandy Phillips' yard where she also meets Lara, Sandy's retired National Dressage Champion and Lindor, the horse of the moment that Sandy co-owns with Desi.